MARRYIN RIGHT/WRONG
Read this before you marry!!
Many people marry for wrong reasons and that’s why they marry wrong. And the wrong reasons are;
1. Marry because of beauty/handsome
2. Marry because of lateness
3. Marry because of pressure
4. Marry because of situation at hand
5. Marry because of liability
6. Marry in order to stop lust
7. Marry because of race/tribe
8. Marry because of attention!!
9. Etc.
All these are genuinely fleshly reasons because that moment the body is too loud to notice what the future holds. I saw a post written “when you marry her because of beauty, you are marrying a very beautiful problem” not that the beauty don’t count but the reason is wrong,
In the book of Genesis 2:15, the bible says Änd the LORD GOD took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it” this tells us that God had a purpose with the man and the purpose was to attend to the garden. And when the work was too heavy for the man He now had to bring a helper!! That is in verse 18 which says it is not good for the man to be alone” or in other words to work alone, we are not told because Adam wanted a mate or a lover, but a helper!!
Its unfortunate that many people are looking for soul mates instead of workmates, they are looking for somebody they love the most instead of focusing on what they are called to do in life, that is why many dreams are on the rocks because of marrying wrong!! Many marriages are in regrets because of marrying wrong!! They only survive on the grounds of children and liabilities but truth be told they married wrong!!
Then, when you wish to marry kindly look at these three (3) keys. And am not saying because you married wrong you are supposed to leave the one you have and re-marry another one. Vumilia!! shikilia!! Tengeneza!!
1. LIFE PURPOSE.
Many people especially the youths and the un-lightened, don’t know their life purpose and that’s why they choose whoever comes on sight, that leads to not discovering your life purpose and eventually end up to un-wanted marriage!!
Chose to find your purpose in life first, then find someone who fits in that purpose, and supports it!!.
For example if your partner is a pastor or in any other profession, it is not a must for you to be in the same profession, but he/she understands your field well and he/she is the first fun and a supporter to it!!
Genesis 2:15,18
2. VALUABLE
In most cases when you go to interviews there is a very common question they ask “ why should we hire you” yes they are looking for somebody to employ but what does that individual brings to the company? This simply means they are looking for somebody with added advantages so that they can add value to the company. Therefore before you bring somebody onboard they must show up on values that can help both of you thrive together.
Look out lest you marry a liability. Value means, at your absence he/she can stand for you, or make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
3. MATTERS OF FAITH
Unfortunately, so many generations are lost in the matters of faith, you’ll find people compromising their faith because they want to marry, not knowing that they are loosing their generation. God wants us to raise a generation for Him!! He is so jealous with us such that He commands us not to allow other gods Exd. 20:1-5. You will never see a muslim marrying to a Christian without converting into islam, and goes same even to other religions, beliefs and races. or else they will raise
somebody onboard they must show up on values that can help both of you thrive together.
Look out lest you marry a liability. Value means, at your absence he/she can stand for you, or make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
3. MATTERS OF FAITH
Unfortunately, so many generations are lost in the matters of faith, you’ll find people compromising their faith because they want to marry, not knowing that they are loosing their generation. God wants us to raise a generation for Him!! He is so jealous with us such that He commands us not to allow other gods Exd. 20:1-5. You will never see a muslim marrying to a Christian without converting into islam, and goes same even to other religions, beliefs and races. or else they will raise a lost generation!!! #news #Featured #ForYourInformation #ForYourViewingPleasure #ForDiscussion
Read this before you marry!!
Many people marry for wrong reasons and that’s why they marry wrong. And the wrong reasons are;
1. Marry because of beauty/handsome
2. Marry because of lateness
3. Marry because of pressure
4. Marry because of situation at hand
5. Marry because of liability
6. Marry in order to stop lust
7. Marry because of race/tribe
8. Marry because of attention!!
9. Etc.
All these are genuinely fleshly reasons because that moment the body is too loud to notice what the future holds. I saw a post written “when you marry her because of beauty, you are marrying a very beautiful problem” not that the beauty don’t count but the reason is wrong,
In the book of Genesis 2:15, the bible says Änd the LORD GOD took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it” this tells us that God had a purpose with the man and the purpose was to attend to the garden. And when the work was too heavy for the man He now had to bring a helper!! That is in verse 18 which says it is not good for the man to be alone” or in other words to work alone, we are not told because Adam wanted a mate or a lover, but a helper!!
Its unfortunate that many people are looking for soul mates instead of workmates, they are looking for somebody they love the most instead of focusing on what they are called to do in life, that is why many dreams are on the rocks because of marrying wrong!! Many marriages are in regrets because of marrying wrong!! They only survive on the grounds of children and liabilities but truth be told they married wrong!!
Then, when you wish to marry kindly look at these three (3) keys. And am not saying because you married wrong you are supposed to leave the one you have and re-marry another one. Vumilia!! shikilia!! Tengeneza!!
1. LIFE PURPOSE.
Many people especially the youths and the un-lightened, don’t know their life purpose and that’s why they choose whoever comes on sight, that leads to not discovering your life purpose and eventually end up to un-wanted marriage!!
Chose to find your purpose in life first, then find someone who fits in that purpose, and supports it!!.
For example if your partner is a pastor or in any other profession, it is not a must for you to be in the same profession, but he/she understands your field well and he/she is the first fun and a supporter to it!!
Genesis 2:15,18
2. VALUABLE
In most cases when you go to interviews there is a very common question they ask “ why should we hire you” yes they are looking for somebody to employ but what does that individual brings to the company? This simply means they are looking for somebody with added advantages so that they can add value to the company. Therefore before you bring somebody onboard they must show up on values that can help both of you thrive together.
Look out lest you marry a liability. Value means, at your absence he/she can stand for you, or make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
3. MATTERS OF FAITH
Unfortunately, so many generations are lost in the matters of faith, you’ll find people compromising their faith because they want to marry, not knowing that they are loosing their generation. God wants us to raise a generation for Him!! He is so jealous with us such that He commands us not to allow other gods Exd. 20:1-5. You will never see a muslim marrying to a Christian without converting into islam, and goes same even to other religions, beliefs and races. or else they will raise
somebody onboard they must show up on values that can help both of you thrive together.
Look out lest you marry a liability. Value means, at your absence he/she can stand for you, or make sure there’s that thing you must be there in order for him/her to get moving!! If you get to see a spouse looking for help not from his/her partner then that means the other party has no value!
Proverbs 31:10-31
3. MATTERS OF FAITH
Unfortunately, so many generations are lost in the matters of faith, you’ll find people compromising their faith because they want to marry, not knowing that they are loosing their generation. God wants us to raise a generation for Him!! He is so jealous with us such that He commands us not to allow other gods Exd. 20:1-5. You will never see a muslim marrying to a Christian without converting into islam, and goes same even to other religions, beliefs and races. or else they will raise a lost generation!!! #news #Featured #ForYourInformation #ForYourViewingPleasure #ForDiscussion
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